In or Out???
My feelings are kinda blue 2dae so shall blog in blue too..hahaha (hw lame wor). Hasnt reali been a gd dae for me…FC dropped a bombshell on me during lunch 2dae, luckily it was after I had wolfed down my beehoon. Ang moh boss had decided to let old mother hen remain in coy for as long as she can work..Duhzzz…
Tat means my future in tis coy has somehw been given a verdict altot nothing remains the same 4ever. But for the moment, juz dun look tat rosy for me…*sigh* His exact words are "She’s a founding member of the coy" *faintz* No doubt tat our Chinese culture has always taught us to be respectful towards the elderly but den it oso depends if the elderly deserved to be respected. How to respect some1 who doze off in the midst of checking documents or speak ill of othrs behind one’s back??? *Biangz*
Well, one thing for sure, its time to start plannin for the future since 80% of reality has been laid out rite in front of me. It will be an injustice done to myself if I contd to linger dere and kipin my fingers crossed hoping for miracles to happen. Time to put myself b4 others, esp if ppl dun appreciate any kindness. Many a times, I’ve always slap myself for being too much of a nice person. Simply becoz not all kindness are appreciated, if not hw come dere’s a saying "it doesn’t pay to be kind".
Altot I dun expect ppl to recipocrate kindness for kindness, but at least they shld haf the common sense to differentiate right from wrong. But den again, some ppl mayb lack tat common sense nerve in their brain and simply relate word for word (mayb even add salt & vinegar) or else they are blind. Blind either by tat magical 4 letter word or blind to wanna be in the "In" crowd.
Tis reminds me of a literature text which I had for my Os. The name of the text was "Chrysalis". The storyline revolve arnd a society whereby any individuals who do not fit into the norm are considered as outcasts and hw a grp of youths wif telepathic abilities are hunted by those dearest to them in a bid to cleanse their society (or world) of any abnormalities. J
Juz ask urself, how often today are minorities viewed as outcasts by othrs. I’ve always tot tat in tis modern society of ours, we’ve come to a stage whereby any opinions and views are accepted with an open mind. Nah..Reality check time..Till now we are still wandering at the same old spot of either u conform (and be the "in" grp) or u stand by ur opinions and views (and be the "out" grp). And tats oso the reason y whenever ppl are prompted for opinion, the most common (and safest) answer will be "no comments". Ppl use tat as a reason to escape being held liable for their actions and opinions. They dun wan to be left out in the cold juz becoz they dun agree with watever is happening.
To the majority (tats the "in" grp), they dun care how the minorities (or the no comments grp) feel. They juz care abt themselves. They feel tat being the majority, they have the right of way in everything and its either u r in or u get lost, its as simple as tat. Stickin to one’s guns might be viewed as socially unfrendly, but hey it beats being a blind follower. And y cant the majority grp be more gracious towards the minority since the so called power is in their hands?
If everyone does the same thing, tinks the same way, where will creativity evolved from? No one is the same (even twins). We are all unique individuals, so y shld we let our uniqueness be buried thousands of feet underground juz to conform with others. Alot of ppl would sae tat they juz wanna haf a simple life, but does having a simple life means being led by the nose all the time? Its a pity tat altot our society has advanced to a technology age yet our tinkin remains stagnant at Stone Age. *sigh*
~Realise your potential, you wun noe wat u are capable of till u try~
